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Post by bizzeedee on Tue Oct 09, 2012 5:36 pm

My sister, only surviving sibling passed this morning. She survived cervical cancer but has been in a assisted living home, followed by nursing home and lots of hospital stays for the past 3 years... my heart is broken. We last visited in 2008 and she was doing pretty good, then things went down hill after a fall.

Sadly, we can't get down to NC... hubby hasn't and can't drive in 10 months, and I just can't drive in traffic in large cities... and flying is out of the question as it would require driving thru Nashville to get to an airport. But my niece and nephew understand... still it hurts.

Could use your happy thoughts and prayers. Sad
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Post by 2BzzOrNot2Bzz on Tue Oct 09, 2012 8:56 pm

Dee, you have my thoughts and prayers. I'm so sorry for the loss. Hugs. Big hugs.

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Post by bizzeedee on Tue Oct 09, 2012 9:13 pm

thanks, as my family is now posting of FB, the tears are flowing again, especialy for her granddagher and great grandddaughter who where so close an important to her.
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Post by trax on Tue Oct 09, 2012 10:13 pm

My deepest sympathy to you, relatives and friends. I am sorry for your loss.
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Post by Lori on Wed Oct 10, 2012 9:39 am

I'm sorry to hear about this, Dee. Losing a sister is hard. (We need a better group hug icon here.) I still dream about my sister quite often and when I wake up it always seems like she's just paid me a visit.

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Post by bizzeedee on Wed Oct 10, 2012 10:18 am

Joanie spent the night in my dreams last night... she was healthy and well.
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Post by kleenaechs on Wed Oct 10, 2012 1:09 pm

I am so sorry for your loss and that you can't get to the funeral

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Post by tara on Wed Oct 10, 2012 3:41 pm

So sorry Dee
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Post by bizzeedee on Wed Oct 10, 2012 6:03 pm

my niece asked me again, if there was anyway I could get there as they wanted me to do the eulogy... again, I said I'm sorry, but it's not possible. so asked her if I could type one up and email it and someone else could read....she understood and agreed. so tonight, that's my task... to recall 65 years of memories about her. guess I best get started.
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Post by agaphmou on Wed Oct 10, 2012 7:31 pm

Dee,I'm so very sorry about your loss! I didn't see the post until just now.We know how you feel,I think every one of us has lost someone close to us.My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family for strength. Believe it or not my mom visits us,both in our dreams plus she turns lights on to show us that she has visited.We are convinced that there is life after death if that comforts you at all.xoxo
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Post by bizzeedee on Wed Oct 10, 2012 7:42 pm

yes it does, Athena... Joanie was my surviving sib (brother passed in '08), of course Mom and Dad are gone, so I truly feel like an orphan Crying or Very sad
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Post by agaphmou on Thu Oct 11, 2012 2:48 am

Consider us your second family Dee
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Post by Lori on Thu Oct 11, 2012 8:01 am

agaphmou wrote:Consider us your second family Dee
Agreed!

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Post by bizzeedee on Thu Oct 11, 2012 10:55 am

I have, since our "family" connected back in 2008 !
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Post by Rebecca1340 on Thu Oct 11, 2012 10:59 am

So sorry again.

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